Matthew 2.13-23
One of my greatest fears, a fear that sometimes keeps me up at night pleading with God, is the fear of losing a loved one.
I worry, with an extreme intensity, about things like my wife getting in a fatal car accident when she is driving around without me (you know, because I have a god-complex that leads me to believe I have the ability to protect her from ultimate harm when I am around).
And, I worry, with the same extreme intensity, about outliving my own sons for a wide variety of reasons.
The world can be violent and therefore emotionally devastating.
Just listen to the news from any hour of any day — lives are always being taken away due to drunk drivers, overdoses, stabbings, shootings, people falling off ladders or down stairs in their own home, cancer, suicide, wars, genocide, and the list goes on and on and on.
If you have children, whether they are still in your care or grown and out on their own, I know you share my feelings, or at least have shared my feelings at one point, of being afraid for their safety.
In this morning’s text, chosen for us by the lectionary for this first Sunday after Christmas, Jesus’ parents find themselves in a violent world that is emotionally devastating causing them to fear the death of their 2 year old son.
Let’s hear from Matthew 2.13-23 now.
Matthew 2:13–23 tells us this:
[13] Now when they had departed, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Rise, take the child and his mother, and flee to Egypt, and remain there until I tell you, for Herod is about to search for the child, to destroy him.” [14] And he rose and took the child and his mother by night and departed to Egypt [15] and remained there until the death of Herod. This was to fulfill what the Lord had spoken by the prophet, “Out of Egypt I called my son.”
[16] Then Herod, when he saw that he had been tricked by the wise men, became furious, and he sent and killed all the male children in Bethlehem and in all that region who were two years old or under, according to the time that he had ascertained from the wise men. [17] Then was fulfilled what was spoken by the prophet Jeremiah:
[18] “A voice was heard in Ramah,
weeping and loud lamentation,
Rachel weeping for her children;
she refused to be comforted, because they are no more.”
[19] But when Herod died, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt, [20] saying, “Rise, take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who sought the child’s life are dead.” [21] And he rose and took the child and his mother and went to the land of Israel. [22] But when he heard that Archelaus was reigning over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there, and being warned in a dream he withdrew to the district of Galilee. [23] And he went and lived in a city called Nazareth, so that what was spoken by the prophets might be fulfilled, that he would be called a Nazarene. (ESV)
In 2022, Ozzy Osbourne released the record, Patient Number 9.
On that album, he has a track called “God Only Knows.”
The gut-wrenching lyrics strike a chord with us because the hopelessness contained within the words resonate with the dark places and dark thoughts that often define our human condition and experience.
Osbourne hauntingly croons:
Facedown on the pavement like a wounded animal
Don’t know if I’ll make it but I’m giving up control
The sky is laughing at me, shivers through my bones
Does it have to end so badly? Am I out here on my own?
God only knows what’s going on
My life has become the saddest song
Even though Christmas was just three days ago, do you feel like your life is the saddest song right now? Or, can you look back to a place that you would have said that your life had become the saddest song?
For Joseph, not too long after Jesus’ birth, he could have defined his life as becoming the saddest song.
After celebrating the birth of his first son, a son whom was actually the Son of God given to him to save him and the world around him from being eternally separated from God, Jospeh finds himself being told to run and hide in a foreign nation because the head of the government was searching for his son so that he could kill him.
If Joseph is like you and me, which he is because he is human, he spent time facedown on the ground crying out in prayer, not knowing if he was going to make it through this present trouble, thinking that maybe God is laughing at him in his pain, asking why things have to be so bad, asking if he is actually all alone.
In a relatively short period of time, Joseph went from singing, “Celebrate good times, Come on!” (Kool & The Gang, 1980), to singing, “God only knows what’s going on” (Ozzy Osbourne, 2022).
Why was this happening to Jospeh, Mary, and Jesus? The answer is the self-centered living that Sin causes.
King Herod felt personally threatened when he heard the news that a child was born that people were calling, “the King.” Herod feared losing his throne that gave him power and control.
So, in an attempt to preserve his ego, Herod, in his arrogance, calls for those at his beckon call to go to the place that Jesus was born and terminate the child’s life.
Unable to pinpoint young Jesus’ exact location, Herod has every single male child under the age of two (the estimated age of Jesus at the time) killed.
Each of us is similar. We feel threatened when hearing about Jesus being the true King. We feel threatened because we, like Herod, like believing that we are in ultimate control of our lives and have the power to control the lives of others. We don’t want to believe that there is someone else that is able to hold us accountable for our thoughts, words, and actions.
So, like Herod, we try to deny Jesus’ Kingship and get rid of him by any means necessary.
The interesting thing is that Joseph did not try to get rid of Jesus.
Joseph could have easily said,”This isn’t my biological child. I didn’t sign up for this. I am walking away so that I don’t have to deal with the problems that this kid is causing.”
Why didn’t Jospeh throw in the towel and call it a day?
Why didn’t Joseph take his ball and go home?
It wasn’t because Joseph is better than you or me.
Joseph persisted because Jesus’ presence with him resulted in God actively leading and protecting him. With Jesus’ presence in Joseph’s life, God was reminding him of the promises God had made to him and the world for thousands of years. With the knowledge of God’s promises and the evidence of fulfilling those promises in Jesus, Joseph was able to trust that God was good, God was in control, and God was working all things out for his good—even if it was hard to see in the current moment of violence and devastation.
When God tells Joseph to go to Egypt, God is reminding Joseph (and you) that just as God saved His people from slavery in Egypt, Jesus’ return from Egypt is your return to God as He saves you from slavery to Sin.
When God spares Jesus from Herod’s slaughter of the young children, God is reminding Joseph (and you) that just as Israel had hope and life in the midst of the hurt and death of being conquered by Babylon, Joseph (and you) will have hope and life in the midst of the hurt and death that is experienced over the course of your days.
And, when Joseph is diverted off course to the city of Nazareth and not allowed to go home, Joseph is reminded (and you are too) of the words of promise that Jesus will be one who is despised, rejected, and not accepted by those he came to save.
The three quotations from Scripture used to describe Jesus are signs that God is doing what God said He would do. God is giving you a Messiah. God is giving you a Savior. God is giving you the One He has promised you from the very moment that Sin entered the world in the Garden of Eden.
Stress kills.
Literally.
Sixty percent of all illnesses and diseases are related to stress.
Seventy-five percent of all doctor visits are connected to stress.
Thirteen percent of all Americans between ages 18 and 54 suffer from acute stress. That’s 19 million people.
Forty-four percent of all Americans lose sleep every night because of stress.
If you’re 65 or older, your number one health issue is stress. We have a greater chance of having a heart attack, heart disease, or stroke because of stress.
Why are we stressed? Because we walk around with the world’s weight on our shoulders, convinced that if we work more, exercise more, party more, and make more money, life will work out.
Life in these finite bodies will always give us reason to be stressed into a mess.
As our text for this morning proves, life will always have it’s ups and downs.
One minute Joseph was celebrating the birth of his first son. Not just a normal son, but the Son of God, Jesus who would fulfill every promise of God including saving men and women from their Sin.
And, a few minutes later, Joseph was grieving and mourning the death that the birth of Jesus led to.
Christmas is always about two trees.
Two very different trees.
The first tree is the Christmas tree. Even though there were no Christmas trees in Jesus’ day, the historical development of the Christmas tree provides us with a visible symbol of the festival and celebration of Jesus’ birth. The Christmas tree is signal to world that Advent and Christmas are upon us. Advent being the time you rest in the truth that in Jesus’ birth, you are given the only gift you ever need. In Jesus’ birth, God comes to you and is with you. In Jesus’ birth, you are given hope and peace in knowing that all the wrong in your life is made right and all of the darkness in your life is made light. And, in Jesus’ birth you are given reason to rejoice because God’s love has been poured out upon you and will never be taken away from you.
The second tree is the wooden cross on which Jesus was crucified. Death is always part of the Christmas story. If death wasn’t an integral part of the Christmas story, you would have no hope, no peace, no joy, and no love. In Jesus’ birth, and eventual death on the cross and resurrection from the grave, your self-centered and selfish Sin is forgiven.
Howard Rutledge was an American fighter pilot during the Vietnam War who was shot down and captured by the North Vietnamese in 1965. They locked Rutledge in a prison in Hanoi, North Vietnam. The prison was infamously known as, “The Hanoi Hilton.”
Howard Rutledge was locked in a 6×6-foot cell. There were no books, no magazines, and no newspapers. The colors were drab gray and dirt brown. He fought to keep his sanity.
Sometimes life gets really dark when those in power choose to harm and hurt us.
The most accurate translation of Hebrews 13.5 is this: Jesus says, “Never, never, never, never, never, will I leave you or forsake you.” Howard Rutledge believed that. He prayed for God’s presence while imprisoned by the North Vietnamese in the Hanoi Hilton. One day, a glimmer of light dawned through the bottom of his prison door. That was all he needed. From that point, Rutledge knew that God would set him free. And, He did!
When Jesus was with Joseph and Mary, they were set free from fear. They were set free from fear because when Jesus was with them, God actively led them and protected them.
When Jesus is with you, God is actively leading you and protecting you.
How is God leading you and protecting you?
God is leading you away from death and protecting you from the punishment that your Sin deserves.
What you see in this morning’s text is that Jesus escapes death for you.
Through the love of God for you, God ensures that Jesus is able to give you hope, peace, and joy by escaping death as a toddler so that He could later escape death by rising from the grave three days after crucifixion so that you, through faith which unites you with every aspect of Jesus, can also escape Hell and find the comfort of God’s presence in Heaven.
This is the Word of God for you today.
This is the Grace of God for you today.
Amen.
Reverend Fred Scragg V.
December 28, 2025.
Prayer:
Loving Father, help us to pray with Jesus, “Your will be done,” and follow where You lead. Amen.