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Providing Wine

John 2.1-11

Have you ever committed a faux pa?

A faux pa, is a fancy way of saying that you did something embarrassing or culturally insensitive.

Have you ever done something so embarrassing that you still think about it today and cringe when you relive that moment in your mind?

Well, there are many ways to be involved in faux pas, especially if you take your ingrained Western ways to another country.

In China, if you keep your shoes on inside someone’s home, you are disrespecting their family.

In the United Arab Emirates, it is disrespectful to wear revealing clothes.  Women are to wear clothing that covers their body from their shoulder to their toes.  And, men are not to wear tight fitting clothes, such as cycling shorts or under armor, unless you are on a sports team participating in that sport.

In the U.K., the peace sign that you make with your hand here in America is the equivalent of flipping someone the middle finger and asking them to fight you.

In Brazil, raising a fist in the air, as you would do at a sporting event or concert in America, is a signal that a man’s wife is cheating on him.

In Iran and Irag, giving the thumb’s up, that commonly shows someone that they did a good job in America, is actually one of the worst non-verbal insults you can give another human being.

I am no stranger to faux pas.

A few years ago, I did one of the most embarrassing things that I think you could ever do.  I congregated a woman on being pregnant when in fact she was not pregnant.

In this morning’s text, we are going to hear about a wedding party, a wedding celebration, a wedding feast, where the groom who was responsible for providing for the needs of his guest ends up in the middle of a faux pa, doing the most embarrassing thing that a groom can do at a wedding he is hosting.

Let’s hear about this wedding and this faux pa as recorded for us in John 2.1-11.

John 2:1–11 tells us this:

[1] On the third day there was a wedding at Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. [2] Jesus also was invited to the wedding with his disciples. [3] When the wine ran out, the mother of Jesus said to him, “They have no wine.” [4] And Jesus said to her, “Woman, what does this have to do with me? My hour has not yet come.” [5] His mother said to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.”

[6] Now there were six stone water jars there for the Jewish rites of purification, each holding twenty or thirty gallons. [7] Jesus said to the servants, “Fill the jars with water.” And they filled them up to the brim. [8] And he said to them, “Now draw some out and take it to the master of the feast.” So they took it. [9] When the master of the feast tasted the water now become wine, and did not know where it came from (though the servants who had drawn the water knew), the master of the feast called the bridegroom [10] and said to him, “Everyone serves the good wine first, and when people have drunk freely, then the poor wine. But you have kept the good wine until now.” [11] This, the first of his signs, Jesus did at Cana in Galilee, and manifested his glory. And his disciples believed in him. (ESV)

This text begins the public ministry of Jesus when he is somewhere around the age of 30.

What a strange beginning to Jesus’ ministry!

Jesus goes to a wedding.

The wine runs out.

Jesus’ mother puts Jesus on the spot.

Jesus somewhat reluctantly listens to his mother and helps out the one throwing the party by miraculously changing jars full of water into jars full of wine.

Let’s begin by asking, “What is this text NOT about?”

Well, this text is not about Jesus approving drunkenness.  Even though Jesus served more wine after the initial batch of wine ran out, no where in the text does it say people were over drinking or were drunk.  Drunkenness is an assumption made by many who approach this text.

How do we know that the people were not being over served alcohol? We know that because drunkenness is a sin and Jesus would never lead anyone into sin.

The Apostle Paul, gave this command in Ephesians 5:18–21:

[18] And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit, [19] addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, [20] giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, [21] submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. (ESV)

And, the Apostle Paul lists a life of continual unrepentant drunkenness as something that separates you from God the Father in Heaven.

Writing to the Christians gathered in the city of Galatia during the 1st Century A.D., Paul said:

[19] Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, [20] idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, [21] envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. [22] But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, [23] gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. [24] And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. (Galatians 5.19-24, ESV)

This morning’s Biblical text has also been used to prove that Jesus simply supports the drinking of alcohol.  Although that is not what this text is about, drinking in moderation that does not lead to drunkenness is allowed.  That allowance is for you who are not what Alcoholics Anonymous would label one of the “hopeless variety” (meaning you can have one drink and be done).

Instead of being a treatise on alcohol, this is an amazing text that tells us about God’s goodness and God’s grace in our lives.

So, this morning, we have to set all of our preconceived thoughts about drinking, serving, and making alcohol aside to receive the good news that God wants to give us.

At this wedding, the wine is just a means by which Jesus reveals a great truth about who He is and what He is here on earth to say and do.

So, with all of that said, I now give you the message that this text gives you, and that message is this:

Jesus is the Messiah, Jesus is the One Anointed by God to forgive your sins, give you His righteousness, and give you eternal life in Heaven.

The message is that here, in His first public miracle, Jesus proves that he is both fully man and fully God by doing what is impossible for man to do.

And, in addition to do for you what you can’t do for yourself—provide the forgiveness of sins, righteousness before the throne of God, and eternal life in Heaven—God enters into your life in the person and work of Jesus Christ to meet your daily needs.

Let’s briefly examine our text.

In the ancient Hebraic world, the marriage celebration lasted seven days.  During that week, the groom was responsible for providing enough food and wine for all of those in attendance.  The groom’s responsibility was taken seriously by all and there were even laws set up to protect the invited guests.  If the groom failed to meet their party needs, the bride’s family could sue to groom for reparations.   

In addition to the legal regulations weighing down upon the groom, he also lived in a shame based culture.  Running out of wine was a major social faux pa and could ruin his reputation in the small village which he lived and worked.  

Cana was a small village approximately 10 miles from Jesus’ hometown of Nazareth.  Due to the closeness of the village and the guest list which included Mary, Jesus’ mother, Jesus, and his associates, the disciples, we can deduce that this celebration was for a close family relative or friend.  Therefore, when the wine runs out, Mary feels a responsibility to help remedy the situation.  

Jesus being aware of the needs of this close acquaintance and the consequences of those needs not being met, Jesus steps in to help meet the current needs of the groom.

Jesus cares about the groom and his everyday needs, no matter how big or small that they are.

And, that means that Jesus cares about your everyday needs, no matter how big or small that they are.

I often forget that God cares about the everyday needs that I have—especially those that I deem small and relatively insignificant, like a lost stuffed animal that helps my younger son peacefully sleep at night, or a lost book that helps calm the thoughts of my older son before bedtime so he is able to enter a period of rest.

However, my mother often reminds me that God cares about the needs we have on a daily basis by telling me, “I am glad you found that stuffed animal and that book, I was praying for that.”

Later on in Jesus’ life, he ends up in a conversation with a man who is name in the text as a ruler, and who has become known as the rich young ruler throughout church history.

Luke 18:18–30 records this conversation between the rich young ruler and Jesus.

The conversation goes like this:

[18] And a ruler asked him, “Good Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” [19] And Jesus said to him, “Why do you call me good? No one is good except God alone. [20] You know the commandments: ‘Do not commit adultery, Do not murder, Do not steal, Do not bear false witness, Honor your father and mother.’” [21] And he said, “All these I have kept from my youth.” [22] When Jesus heard this, he said to him, “One thing you still lack. Sell all that you have and distribute to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.” [23] But when he heard these things, he became very sad, for he was extremely rich. [24] Jesus, seeing that he had become sad, said, “How difficult it is for those who have wealth to enter the kingdom of God! [25] For it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the kingdom of God.” [26] Those who heard it said, “Then who can be saved?” [27] But he said, “What is impossible with man is possible with God.” [28] And Peter said, “See, we have left our homes and followed you.” [29] And he said to them, “Truly, I say to you, there is no one who has left house or wife or brothers or parents or children, for the sake of the kingdom of God, [30] who will not receive many times more in this time, and in the age to come eternal life.” (ESV)

What is impossible for man is possible for God.

It was impossible for the groom at the wedding to provide more wine for his guests.  But, for God in Christ, it was possible to rescue the groom from the guilt and shame of running out of provisions for those celebrating with him.

It is impossible for you to provide a way to be forgiven for sin before the throne of God. But, for God, it is possible to provide you with the forgiveness you need through the death of His One and Only Son, Jesus, the perfect, unblemished, sacrificial, once-for-all, Lamb.

It is impossible for you to get to Heaven by yourself.

But, with the help of God, it is possible for you to have eternal life.

Jesus does what is impossible for you.  Did you hear that?  Jesus  does what Jesus does—lives, dies, and resurrects—FOR YOU!!!

Jesus lived a life that perfectly met God’s standards of life and love for you.

Jesus died on the cross to provide forgiveness for your sin, you ungodliness, your faux pas, and your embarrassingly insensitive moments.

Jesus rose from the dead on the first Easter morning to defeat the power of sin and death for you.

Jesus gives you his perfect record of righteousness…

And, Jesus brings you into God’s eternal kingdom of Heaven and gives you eternal life.

In sin, you have performed the ultimate faux pa and you find yourself guilty and embarrassed in front of God due to your failure to think, speak, and act in a godly way.

However, in Jesus Christ, every failure in your life up to this point and every failure in your life after this point has been forgiven and will be forgiven simply through faith in Jesus who can do the impossible and turn water in wine, and who can turn a sinner into a saint.

This is the Word of God for you today.

This is the Grace of God for you today.

Amen.

Reverend Fred Scragg V.

January 19, 2025.

Prayer:

Holy God, 

We are people who cannot wash ourselves or make ourselves clean. Even as your children, we love evil and resist what you have said is good. We demand justice for ourselves, but fail to pursue it vigorously on behalf of others. We are indignant about the oppression we read of in faraway lands, yet blind to the oppression taking place right here before our eyes in our families, homes, and work places. We feel good when we give money to feed orphans in foreign countries, but we often don’t know or care about the widows and orphans who need your love right around us. Father, forgive us. 

Redeeming God, we praise you that you have washed us clean in the blood of your Son. You placed all our evil on him so that it could be removed from your sight forever. Jesus suffered profound injustice for our lukewarm apathy, and was fatally oppressed for our continuing failure to love and help the oppressed, here and abroad. He became fatherless to pay for our careless disregard for the fatherless and widows in our own towns. We crucified your precious Son, and instead of hating us, you have given us his perfect goodness and welcomed us to your feast. We are left undone by your extravagant love and complete salvation. 

We ask you to wash our minds and hearts clean, moment by moment. Make our hearts good so that works of kindness and mercy flow from us to the needy people you have placed in our lives. May we love them as you have loved us in our great need. Cause us to love justice and, like your Son, to suffer joyfully great injustice on behalf of others. Help us to love extravagantly, as we have been loved by you. Amen.

Benediction:

Go, in peace, today.  Jesus has proven that He is the Messiah, God-in-flesh, and saves you from being ashamed and embarrassed before God because of the guilt of your sin.  

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Jesus Cancels Your Lies

Psalm 5

Do you feel guilty about lies you have told in the past? 

Do you find yourself re-running over and over and over the moments that you got caught in your lies?  

Do the feelings of embarrassment, shame, guilt, and anger at yourself continue to follow you around?

Do you feel like you are being crushed by the lies you are telling now? 

Do you feel like it is a full time job with a full schedule of overtime trying to keep the lie going while you meticulously obsess over covering up your tracks to make sure, to the best of your ability, that you aren’t found out and don’t get caught?

Do you feel angry about those around you who seem to be living their best life (better than yours) but are lying to get what they have?

Jason Walker, the Austrailian country music singer and song writer penned this thought in one of his songs:

Everybody lies, lies, lies

It’s the only truth sometimes

Doesn’t matter if it’s out there somewhere 

waiting for the world to find

Or buried deep inside

Yeah, everybody lies

Everybody lies

I tend to agree with Walker’s assessment of the human race in these words.

A few years ago, two defendants who appeared in a Montana County District court received unique punishments as part of the sentencing phase of their trial. Their punishment involved wearing signs.

Back in 2017 and 2018, Ryan Morris and Troy Allen Nelson were in violation of their respective probations related to previous criminal offenses. They both lied to the court about having served in the military in order to receive more lenient sentences for their previous criminal behavior.

Judge Pinksi sentenced Morris to ten years for felony burglary, and Nelson five years for felony criminal possession of dangerous drugs, both with years suspended. 

The judge ruled that Morris and Nelson would be required to write letters of apology to various veterans’ groups as well as complete 441 hours of community service. This was one hour for each citizen of Montana killed in combat since the Korean war. 

Then, during the years of their suspended sentence, they would be required to spend each Memorial Day and Veterans day visiting the Montana Veterans Memorial. While they are at the memorial they would be required to wear a placard that reads, “I am a liar, I am not a veteran. I stole valor. I have dishonored all veterans.”

Judge Pinski said, “I want to make sure that my message is received loud and clear by these two defendants. By lying, you’ve been nothing but disrespectful in your conduct. By lying, you certainly have not respected the Army. By lying, you’ve not respected the veterans. By lying, you’ve not respected the court. And, by lying, you haven’t respected yourselves.”

In our text this morning, King David, the writer of most of the songs found in the book of Psalms, wants to make sure that God’s rules surrounding lying is received loud and clear.  

Let’s hear what King David prays in Psalm 5.

Psalm 5 says this:

[1] Give ear to my words, O LORD;

consider my groaning.

[2] Give attention to the sound of my cry,

my King and my God,

for to you do I pray.

[3] O LORD, in the morning you hear my voice;

in the morning I prepare a sacrifice for you and watch.

[4] For you are not a God who delights in wickedness;

evil may not dwell with you.

[5] The boastful shall not stand before your eyes;

you hate all evildoers.

[6]You destroy those who speak lies;

the LORD abhors the bloodthirsty and deceitful man.

[7] But I, through the abundance of your steadfast love,

will enter your house.

I will bow down toward your holy temple

in the fear of you.

[8] Lead me, O LORD, in your righteousness

because of my enemies;

make your way straight before me.

[9] For there is no truth in their mouth;

their inmost self is destruction;

their throat is an open grave;

they flatter with their tongue.

[10] Make them bear their guilt, O God;

let them fall by their own counsels;

because of the abundance of their transgressions cast them out,

for they have rebelled against you.

[11] But let all who take refuge in you rejoice;

let them ever sing for joy,

and spread your protection over them,

that those who love your name may exult in you.

[12] For you bless the righteous, O LORD;

you cover him with favor as with a shield. (ESV)

One of God’s major commandments, found in the list of His Ten Commandments has to do with truth telling and denying the temptation to lie in order to make yourself look better or feel better.

In the Ninth Commandment, God tells you this:

[16] “You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor. (Exodus 20:16, ESV)

This commandment to “fear and love God so that we do not misrepresent, betray, lie about, nor slander our neighbor, but defend him, speak well of him, and say the kindest things we can about all he does,” obviously extends truth telling in all areas of our lives.

If we have been honest thus far, we have established that we are all liars to some degree.

And, if you are listening to me now and you respond, “I am not a liar!,” the ironic thing is that you are lying to yourself, to me, and to God with that statement.

By lying, you’ve not respected God.

So, if we are all liars, what does lying get us?

What is the end or the fate for liars?

This morning’s text has much to say about that.

Here is what King David says in Psalm 5 about those who lie.

First, King David says that God does not delight in you.

Second, King David says that you will not be able to stand before God.

Third, King David says that you will not be able to live with God.

Fourth, in one of the strongest statements, that I find it hard to say out loud, King David says that God hates you.

Fifth, if knowing that God hates you, the liar, isn’t enough, King David says that you who have lied or are lying or who will lie in the future, will be destroyed by God.

And, finally, King David says that God will not even look at you if you have lied or are lying or lie in the future.

When we hear how God thinks and feels about liars and how God treats liars, it is terrifying, but it is also heartbreaking.

When he came face-to-face with God, who is holy, the prophet Isaiah was driven to examine himself.  In that examination, the prophet Isaiah realized that he had used his mouth in unGodly ways, including lying.

Here is what Isiah said as he stood before God’s throne:

“Woe is me! For I am lost; for I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips; for my eyes have seen the King, the LORD of hosts!” (Isaiah 6.5)

Isaiah was both terrified and heartbroken when he realized that the things that came out of his mouth affected his relationship with God.

He was terrified because he realized that his misuse of his mouth made him guilty before God and therefore God had every right to punish him with all of the power in the Universe.

He was also heartbroken because his misuse of his mouth separated him from God, who chose to create him and love him.  His God couldn’t even look at him because of the garbage and filth and lies that poured so easily out of his mouth.

He realized what James, the brother of Jesus, would vocalize and write down thousands of years later.

James puts it this way:

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! [6] And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. [7] For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, [8] but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. [9] With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. [10] From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so. (James 3.5-10, ESV)

For each of us listening this morning to what God has to say about liars and lying, we should be saying the same thing as Isaiah:

“Woe is me! For I am lost; for I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips;

However, there is good news for you this morning.

In fact, there is great news waiting for you as you confess misusing your mouth as Isiah did.

As you confess that sin, you will be assured or reassured of God’s grace, which acts quickly to forgive us, just as Isaiah was.

Isiah tells us that after his confession of using his mouth for evil purposes, including lying, this happened:

“Then one of [God’s angels] flew to me, having in his hand a burning coal that he had taken with tongs from the altar. And he touched my mouth and said: “Behold, this has touched your lips; your guilt is taken away, and your sin atoned for.” (Isaiah 6.6-7)

When you confess your sin of misusing your mouth to both boast and lie, you have the good news that we hear at the beginning of every Sunday morning service:

[9] If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1.9)

When we confess our sin to God, our Father in Heaven, our fears are calmed and our broken hearts are mended.

Through the life, death, and Jesus Christ, God forgives our boasting and lying.

Therefore, the good news for you is that Jesus cancels your lies.

His death on the cross took the guilt of your boasting and lying away.  

On the cross Jesus took your sin, which includes boasting and lying, and gave you his perfection, his holiness, his righteousness, in truth telling.

In what has become my favorite Bible verse, Jesus says this in John 14.6:

[6] Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. (ESV)

This week as you make your way throughout the days that God gives you, speak the words that King David spoke which remind you that your past, present, and future sins that involve the misuse of your words and mouth are forgiven. 

Say, with King David:

[6]You destroy those who speak lies;

the LORD abhors the bloodthirsty and deceitful man.

[7] But I, through the abundance of your steadfast love,

will enter your house.

This is the Word of God for you today.

This is the Grace of God for you today.

Amen.

Reverend Fred Scragg V.

July 7, 2024

Pastoral Responsive Prayer:

Lord God Almighty, 

As we gaze upon your holiness, we are left devastated by our sinfulness. We are lost in the uncleanness of our lips. Unimaginably selfish, utterly prideful, and crushingly unloving words have been spoken freely from these lips. At the same time, we often use our lips to say good things only so that we will be praised by others or so that you will accept us based on our righteousness. We constantly fail to use our lips to say loving or truthful things because we would rather save ourselves the trouble of loving you and others. We live among others who also have unclean lips: we have been mocked, offended, and hated through the lips of others. We confess that we have often responded to these sins with spiteful anger. 

Show us our Savior! The prophet cried, “Woe is me!” as his unclean lips were exposed in light of your holiness. We come boldly to you because the woe that we deserve has been entirely poured out on your Son, Jesus Christ. The sacrifice appointed to redeem our shameful lips was none other than the gruesome death of one whose lips were perfectly clean. Jesus’ lips spoke love to children, quieted storms, declared forgiveness to sinners, and remained silent before his accusers. When Jesus was angry, his lips remained pure, as his anger was expressed in ways that continued to fulfill your commandment to love you and others before himself. The very lips that spoke, “Father forgive them,” that we might be saved, cried out in agony, “Father, why have you forsaken me?” so that we would not be forsaken. We are left in awe at this unfathomable act of love. 

Thank you, Father, that the cross stands empty now. Jesus is risen, and you have made us alive in him. Help us, Lord, to speak in light of this gospel news. May we use our lips to speak the same grace and love that have been so richly lavished upon us. When we fail, Lord, help us to remember the words of forgiveness that have been so powerfully guaranteed by the blood of Jesus. Help us to wait patiently for the day when our faith will be sight, the day our lips will finally and purely sing, “Hallelujah, what a Savior!” 

In Jesus’ name, amen.  

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You Got Served!

Mark 10.32-45

The lonely artist had made up his mind. Today was the day he would end it all for good. He climbed the tropically wooded hill behind his Tahitian hut, more alone than he had ever been. 

The now-famous French painter and atheist Paul Gauguin had failed to achieve meaningful success as a painter in his lifetime. He’d abandoned his wife and children, alienated his friends, and headed to Tahiti in search of the authentic life untouched by the poisons of conventionality, greed, and power. Now he had come to the end.

Just days before, he’d completed one last painting, intended as his final testament to the world. He’d described its philosophical ambition to a friend as “comparable to that of the gospel.” It was a massive, three-panel work depicting Tahitian women of all life phases. Moving from right to left, it showed the beginning of life in an infant and the end of life in a sad, old woman—and various stages between. In English it was titled: Where do we come from? What are we? Where are we going?

And now, having finished his greatest work, Gauguin walked up the wooded hill and swallowed all the arsenic in the tin. But he ingested too much arsenic, causing him to violently vomit the poison before it could take effect. He managed to find his way back down the hill, and would die a few years later at the age of 54.

But those three questions—Where do we come from? What are we? Where are we going?—didn’t come from Gauguin. They came from a Christian leader in France named Bishop Felix Dupanloup who drew from a much larger story than himself. 

Gauguin had studied under this dynamic Christian leader during most of his teen years. Dupanloup’s introduction to Christianity instilled in Gauguin the practice of pondering these basic questions about God, our selves, and others. Dupanloup was convinced that once these three questions get into our hearts and minds they cannot be erased—not completely anyway, particularly in this young student. No matter how far he roamed (or ran) from God—no matter how he tried to shake his past—the passionate bishop’s three questions, those he taught as more fundamental than all the others, could not leave the tormented and seemingly unyielding Gauguin. They became the substance of his final testament.

On that hilltop, when questioning the value of his own life, Gauguin had three questions for God:

Where do we come from? 

What are we? 

Where are we going?

We all have questions for God.  Some of our questions would just require answers in the form of information as an explanation.  

However, some of our questions want an answer in the form of God getting actively involved in our every day lives.

If you could ask God to do one thing for you today, what would you ask God to do for you?

Would you ask God to fix your marriage?

Would you ask God to bring back your rebellious kids?

Would you ask God to help you pass your midterm exams?

Would you ask God to increase your paycheck?

Maybe, instead of asking God to get you a pay raise, you would ask him to let you hit the lottery so you could retire immediately and live in leisure for the rest of your life.

Would you ask God to explain all of the suffering in the world—the miscarriages, the cancers, the drunken drivers that kill parents and children, the homelessness, the starvation, the wars?

Would you ask God to explain one of the harder things to understand in the Bible?  

For example, would you ask God what the unforgivable sin is?  

Or, would you ask God to tell you the day and time and Jesus was going to return so that you could make sure you are ready to meet him?

Each of us has a list of questions that we would want to ask God right now, if we were face-to-face.

In this morning’s Biblical text, chosen for us by the lectionary for this Fifth Sunday in Lent, we are going to hear two of Jesus’ disciples, James and John, ask Jesus to do one special thing for them.  

Let’s hear from our Biblical text together now.

Mark 10.32-45 says this:

[32] And they were on the road, going up to Jerusalem, and Jesus was walking ahead of them. And they were amazed, and those who followed were afraid. And taking the twelve again, he began to tell them what was to happen to him, [33] saying, “See, we are going up to Jerusalem, and the Son of Man will be delivered over to the chief priests and the scribes, and they will condemn him to death and deliver him over to the Gentiles. [34] And they will mock him and spit on him, and flog him and kill him. And after three days he will rise.”

[35] And James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came up to him and said to him, “Teacher, we want you to do for us whatever we ask of you.” [36] And he said to them, “What do you want me to do for you?” [37] And they said to him, “Grant us to sit, one at your right hand and one at your left, in your glory.” [38] Jesus said to them, “You do not know what you are asking. Are you able to drink the cup that I drink, or to be baptized with the baptism with which I am baptized?” [39] And they said to him, “We are able.” And Jesus said to them, “The cup that I drink you will drink, and with the baptism with which I am baptized, you will be baptized, [40] but to sit at my right hand or at my left is not mine to grant, but it is for those for whom it has been prepared.” [41] And when the ten heard it, they began to be indignant at James and John. [42] And Jesus called them to him and said to them, “You know that those who are considered rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. [43] But it shall not be so among you. But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, [44] and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all. [45] For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” (ESV)

We all know, well, at least most of us know, that there is a social code that makes some questions inappropriate.

For example:

Asking a friend how much money they make…inappropriate.

Asking someone at the polls who they voted for…inappropriate.

Asking a relative to give you a job over more qualified candidates…inappropriate (and illegal).

Asking your wife how much she weighs…inappropriate (and also dangerous).

In this morning’s Biblical text, two of the disciples, James and John have an inappropriate question that they ask Jesus.  

Well, to be more exact, with a detail from Matthew’s biography of Jesus that also records this event, James and John have a question that they ask their Mommy to ask Jesus for them.

Doubly inappropriate.

And, their question is “Can you make us more important than everyone else in the Kingdom of Heaven by giving us the seats directly on you left and right.  This way when everyone looks at you, their Savior, they will also see us!”

They obviously forgot what they heard Jesus teach when he said:

[7] Now he told a parable to those who were invited, when he noticed how they chose the places of honor, saying to them, [8] “When you are invited by someone to a wedding feast, do not sit down in a place of honor, lest someone more distinguished than you be invited by him, [9] and he who invited you both will come and say to you, ‘Give your place to this person,’ and then you will begin with shame to take the lowest place. [10] But when you are invited, go and sit in the lowest place, so that when your host comes he may say to you, ‘Friend, move up higher.’ Then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at table with you. [11] For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.” (Luke 14:7–11, ESV)

With that being said, there are three main problems with the question that James and John have their Mommy ask Jesus.

First, their question shows a superficial understanding of what it means to follow Jesus.

James and John knew that Jesus was moving forward towards glory and world renown.

However, they didn’t know that the glory and world renown was going to come through rejection, suffering, pain, and death.

Jesus did tell them about this upside down path to glory and world renown in John 10:14–15, when Jesus says to us:

[14] I am the good shepherd. I know my own and my own know me, [15] just as the Father knows me and I know the Father; and I lay down my life for the sheep. (ESV)

And, later on, in his letter to the Church after Jesus’ death and resurrection, John reminds us of Jesus’ death and our responsibility to make similar sacrifices for others in our leadership.

1 John 3:16–18 tell us this:

[16] By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers. [17] But if anyone has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him? [18] Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth. (ESV)

Following Jesus means doing what Jesus did—considering the needs of others more important than your own, or, sacrificing your own comfort and resources to make sure those around you have what they need for life and love.

Second, their question shows that they have an inflated opinion of themselves.

The ironic thing is that James and John want everyone to see what great leaders they are, but they don’t even have the guts to ask Jesus the question about being leaders in His Kingdom themselves.  Mommy has to do it for them.

James 4:8–10 says:

[8] Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. [9] Be wretched and mourn and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom. [10] Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you. (ESV)

Humbling ourselves goes against human inclination.

Because of the sin into which we are born, we enter this world and make our way through this world thinking and believing that there is no one smarter than us, no one more capable than us, and no one more deserving of a pat on the back than us.

Pastor Timothy Keller of Redeemer Presbyterian in New York City once wrote that another way to describe sin is self-centeredness.

And, that is exactly what James’ and John’s problem was when their asked their inappropriate question.  They were being selfish and self-centered, or, sinful, and thought that they were better in every way when compared to the rest of their friends and family.

Third, their question shows that they misunderstand how God measures greatness.

When James and John brought their question to Jesus, they were operating with the world’s understand of greatness. 

According to the world’s sinful understanding of greatness, greatest comes from having the most trophies, the highest grade point average, successful kids, the most money, the fanciest and most expensive possessions, going on lavish vacations, and holding the highest position of power possible within and organization which would give you the most amount of employees/servants underneath you to do your bidding.

However, in Matthew 23:11–12, Jesus tells us how God measures greatness when he says:

[11] The greatest among you shall be your servant. [12] Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted. (ESV)

Jesus is always the greatest among us.

Jesus humbled himself by dying on the cross even though he was sinless and innocent before God so that you could be rescued from death and eternal separation from God.

And, therefore, God exalted Jesus so that at one point or another, before or after physical death, every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus is Lord.  Some will do this to glory in Heaven, and some will do this to judgment and destruction in Hell.

Confess Jesus as Lord and Savior today.

Jesus puts your needs before his own.

Jesus shows you what real leadership is.

Jesus shows you that real leaders serve others in the Kingdom of God and Jesus showed you that by example in His life, death, and resurrection for you.

In a devotion that I shared with you through email and over Bethel’s social media accounts this week we heard this verse:

Who is the greater, one who reclines at table or one who serves? (Luke 22:27)

And, then, we were given this short commentary, titled, “The Servant Is Greater.”

When the Lord asked the disciples this question in the Upper Room, it seemed obvious that the one being waited on is greater. In the world, the more people you have doing what you want, the greater you are. This is what we sinners desire. But Jesus said, “I am among you as the one who serves” (Luke 22:27). He washed their feet; He fed them the Sacrament. In God’s kingdom, it’s not the one who receives service but who gives service who is greater.

God is pure, self-giving love. He did not create man to serve Him (as if He needed anything) but so that He might serve man—breathing life into His people, blessing us with the gifts of His creation, and ultimately laying down His life for us. God is glorified in giving Himself to man, not in man giving Himself to God.

We gather for worship, then, as receivers. We give God nothing except the sacrifice of thanksgiving for the mercy He freely bestows. It truly is divine service. The Lord is still among us as the One who serves—from His font and pulpit and table. The highest form of worship is faith, to receive His gifts and to reverence Him as the One who is greater, from whom all blessings flow.

In Jesus, God serves you and puts your needs above his own.

You got served by God who did what was needed for you to be forgiven of sin and given righteousness and eternal life.

Go this week, in the power of the Holy Spirit, and be the humble servant of all, demonstrating the love of God in Jesus Christ that helps not hurts.

This is the Word of God for you today.

This is the Grace of God for you today.

Amen.

Pastor Fred Scragg V.

March 17, 2024.

Prayer: Lord, grant me humility to receive Your gifts and to serve others. In Jesus’ name. Amen.